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"I Have My Bodyguard With Me"
I feel like the main storyline in our house this year is dealing with the fact that my 13-year-old is growing up. She looks mature. She acts mature. And boys are noticing.

She's been asked out several times, but she's read I Kissed Dating Good-Bye and she's determined not to date until she's old enough to court. We've also made a no dating until 18 rule, and she's content to stick to it. She's a great kid. Have I mentioned how grateful I am for her lately?

But boys are definitely pestering her! Yesterday at church one boy was following her around and acting silly as Keith and Rebecca were walking to the car. And he said, "you think I can't bug you now?" (I think he was talking about tickling, but I don't know). Anyway, apparently she said, "Well, I have my bodyguard with me," at which point he started laughing and saying how he could "take" Keith. Which he totally couldn't. I think he was just trying to look cool by dissing the parent.

Which is not the way to impress my daughter.

She just thought he was stupid. But I like that line: "I have my bodyguard with me". That's how she sees Keith. He's her protector, the one who is going to make sure that she doesn't get into trouble.

It's good to give kids rules, because then they do feel protected. And it gives her cover. If a boy asks her out, she doesn't have to say, "I don't like you," or "I think you're gross." She can simply say, "My parents don't let me date. Sorry!" And leave it at that. It's really much easier on her.

She does like boys. And I think she's quite flattered by all the attention. But she'd like to go back to when they were all just friends and hung out, and it's too bad everyone is so eager to move on.

But at least she knows that we will always be there for her.

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At 5:30 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said…

I totally agree it is good for children to have clear defined boundaries...the boundary walls get wider and wider as they get older so that eventually they make their own decisions as adults about what are good life-rules to maintain throughout life and what can be safely then I guess parents hope that their 'moral' direction is firmly settled and their faith is like a rock they build their life on.


At 9:36 AM , Blogger Julie said…

Yep, I remember when my daughters started to emerge as teenagers. They were SO beautiful...still are.

Loved the bodyguard post.


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