Every Friday my syndicated column appears in a bunch of newspapers in southeastern Ontario. This week's is so much like Wifey Wednesday that I thought I'd republish an older one instead, just for variety. So here's one from two years ago. The sentiments are still the same.
I am decorating my Christmas tree. I am trying to persuade my husband to hang our Christmas lights. I am going shopping for Christmas presents. And I am doing my Christmas baking.
I am not doing holiday baking. I am not erecting a Seasonal Tree. I am not buying Winter Presents, or Holiday gifts, or putting up Seasonal lights. They are Christmas lights, and I’m proud of it.
It drives me around the bend how the word “Christmas” has become something to be embarrassed about. Companies don’t throw Christmas parties; they hold Holiday Get-Togethers. We receive “Best Wishes for the Holidays” cards from politicians and mechanics and charities we’ve supported this year. And worst of all, stores advertise their “Holiday Specials”, or attempt to share the “Joy”, as if we’re all magically joyful about this time of year when slush and freezing rain abound.
I understand that nobody wants to offend people who don’t celebrate Christmas, and that desire is very admirable. I think, though, that this is taking things a little too far. The vast majority of Canadians celebrate Christmas in some way, even those who aren’t religious or don’t go in for eggnog. So why can’t we acknowledge that?
Besides, “Season’s Greetings” makes no sense. Did you send people cards on June 21 wishing them “Season’s Greetings” now that summer was here? I’m pretty sure most people are far happier at the cusp of summer than they are at the cusp of winter, but we don’t celebrate that. So it’s not the “season” that’s special.
Or what about “holidays”? When’s the last time you sent someone a card wishing them “happy holidays” because they were taking a four day weekend? We just don’t do it. And that’s the problem with a lot of political correctness. It really makes no sense.
I recently saw a poster advertising the “Year of the Older Person”. I suppose they didn’t want to say “Year of the Elderly” or “Year of the Senior Citizen”, but their choice of politically correct words just made the whole thing laughable. After all, my daughter Rebecca is older than her sister Katie. Katie is older than her cousin Jessica. In fact, since there are approximately five babies born every second in their world, we all only have a micro-second of our lives in which we are not an older person. But someone decided to bestow that name upon the celebration so as not to offend. In the process, they stripped it of all meaning. I think we’re doing the same thing when we refuse to acknowledge the existence of Christmas.
In fact, what if not saying Christmas is actually offensive to more people than saying it is? If Christmas is people’s most significant celebration, then to pretend it isn’t happening is denying something that’s vitally important to them. One study out of the United States found that 67% of American adults preferred stores to use “Merry Christmas” in their seasonal advertising rather than the innocuous and meaningless “Season’s Greetings”. No matter how you cut the demographics—whether it was men, women, unmarried, married, investors, or not—in all categories a majority liked Merry Christmas better.
This year Sears has their “Wish Book” title written in a huge font, but at least the word Christmas is there, on the cover, though you may need your reading glasses to make it out. Wal-Mart in 2005 was holiday neutral; in 2006 they switched back to Merry Christmas, in the hope of luring more customers back to their stores. And the Toronto City Council had eggnog on their faces after their “holiday tree” fiasco last year, which they had to switch back to “Christmas Tree”, since that is, of course, what it is.
Our family isn’t spending very much this year. We’re taking a vacation instead, and I’m hoping to head back to Africa in a month. But when we do shop, I’ll stay away from the stores who want me to “share the joy of the season”. I’ll be heading to those who aren’t afraid to mention why I’m shopping. When people start to acknowledge that it is, indeed, Christmas, then the merriment begins. So Merry Christmas, to all of you. I hope you all have a blessed celebration.
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It's also offensive when people give me dirty looks when I wish them a "happy holidays" and they growl about taking "Christ out of Christmas" and blah blah blah. I think I'm going to start wishing people a happy winter solstice which is what "Christmas" really is. :) It never was anything to do about Christ and His birthday, it's always been a pagan holiday. And pagans know it and they love it that Christians celebrate their pagan holy day.
However, I don't take offense at people wishing me a "Merry Christmas" even though I don't regard Christmas at all or celebrate. I do try to be polite and respectful of the ones celebrating Hannukah and Kwanzaa and New Year in this time. So if I don't take offense at being wished a "Merry Christmas" when I don't celebrate, people shouldn't take offense at being wished a "Happy Holidays" it's just people trying to be nice.
I also don't like how people accuse me of trying to be "politically correct". They don't know my motives, and if I told most of them I don't "do" Christmas, it would make them angry, and I feel this is a nicer way around it. But no, some are so piously religious that they get nasty about it.
Not saying you do, just trying to explain from the point of view of those of us that say "Happy Holidays" and that it has nothing to do with taking Christ out of something he was never in in the first place.
Yes - this whole political correctness and over-sensitive awareness is just crazy. Have people really become so delicate that they can't handle certain words/customs/traditons of others...?
It makes me bonkers too. I listen to country music and Brad Paisley has a Christmas song about political correctness and it bleeps the word "Christmas". They then attempt to sing " I'm dreaming of a white Christmas". The word white and Christmas get bleeped and they are told they have to say Caucasian holiday.
SO yes, I say Merry Christmas. Or maybe one year I will just say "Happy Birthday" since mine happens to fall on the same day.
I love to see many people already making Christmas preparation, the online greetings and trees..gift every thing happening! anyways advanced merry Christmas!
I actually appreciate that non- believers don't pretend otherwise.
Why should Christ be on their tongues if that is not at all what they are celebrating? I say let them have " Seasons Greetings" and " Happy Holidays" Then when someone says " merry Christmas" we'll be able to look at eachother and know we share something more.
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It's also offensive when people give me dirty looks when I wish them a "happy holidays" and they growl about taking "Christ out of Christmas" and blah blah blah. I think I'm going to start wishing people a happy winter solstice which is what "Christmas" really is. :) It never was anything to do about Christ and His birthday, it's always been a pagan holiday. And pagans know it and they love it that Christians celebrate their pagan holy day.
However, I don't take offense at people wishing me a "Merry Christmas" even though I don't regard Christmas at all or celebrate. I do try to be polite and respectful of the ones celebrating Hannukah and Kwanzaa and New Year in this time. So if I don't take offense at being wished a "Merry Christmas" when I don't celebrate, people shouldn't take offense at being wished a "Happy Holidays" it's just people trying to be nice.
I also don't like how people accuse me of trying to be "politically correct". They don't know my motives, and if I told most of them I don't "do" Christmas, it would make them angry, and I feel this is a nicer way around it. But no, some are so piously religious that they get nasty about it.
Not saying you do, just trying to explain from the point of view of those of us that say "Happy Holidays" and that it has nothing to do with taking Christ out of something he was never in in the first place.