Every month I give away a book to whichever blog puts me on their blogroll and then sends me the most first time visitors.

And in November it was Valerie at Mama Lovelock! Congratulations, Valerie! Right now she's in the midst of toilet training. Her son, not herself. So if you want to go offer her some encouragement, you can do it here!

Valerie has had an interesting background like me in that she lost a special needs son, too, although her little boy made it to 3. So I feel like we're kindred spirits!

Anyway, she chose the book Honey, I Don't Have a Headache Tonight: Help for women who want to feel more in the mood. I guess when you're potty training a toddler that book could especially come in handy!

You have a chance to win in December, too! Just add me to your blogroll!

Thank you! I appreciate it!