When it comes to making love, who gets the ball rolling, so to speak? Is it always him, asking for intimacy, or do you sometimes attack him?

You see, men and women see intimacy very differently. When we get married, we women may assume that we're going to want sex as often as our husbands do. What a letdown when we find out that sometimes it just doesn't feel like it's worth the effort!

But because he often wants to make love so much more than she does, it's easy for him to feel like he has no control over their sex life: she holds all the cards.

And believe me, you don't want all the cards. It's not a good place to be.

Today's podcast is all about how to give some of those cards back--and learn how to give him a say in your sex life! It pays big dividends!

Listen in here.