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How to Start the Week
Last week I started my week thinking about busy-ness. I was too busy. But I concluded that the "busy" feeling was largely one of my own making. It wasn't only that I had too much on my plate--though I did have a lot--it was also that I was letting the computer steal a bunch of my time.

So what's the alternative? Right now, I'm sitting at my kitchen table with five days in front of me. And the question is, how am I going to make those five days count? How am I going to make sure that what needs to get done does indeed get done?

I've done the to-do list thing. Many of us have. And I don't always find them helpful. Sometimes they can just be stifling, because there's so much on there it gets discouraging. When you go to make a to-do list, you often think of all the things you wish you would just complete, and those go on the list. And then your to-do list stretches a mile.

I think there's a better way to handle it, and so today I'm going to sketch out what I'd like my days to look like. I'm not saying I always achieve this, but this is the aim. And if you would like to comment and add your thoughts, too, that would be great! Maybe together we'd figure out how to use our days more productively, but also how to savour the downtime and just enjoy being with those we love. So here goes:

1. Have a morning routine. I've written about this before, because mornings are my test. If I can start the morning off right, the rest of the day tends to go well. If I dither or start too late, I become discouraged and often give up on my plans for the day! So I suggest that everyone adopt some sort of a morning routine. When we have a routine we don't need a to-do list. We know what to do, when. It becomes habit.

So, for instance, I often get up, write a blog post, read my Bible and sip hot chocolate, exercise, shower, and make my bed, in that order. It takes about an hour and a half. Now my children are older now, so I don't have to get up with them, or get them dressed, or even get them breakfast. They can get their own. I know it's tough when you have smaller children. But even then I did have a routine. I would often put on a certain video, or put them in the playpen, while I showered. I tended to have breakfast at a certain time. When we had a routine, the kids knew what to expect and didn't complain too much.

What do you do in the morning to get your day off right?

2. Put first things first. Part of my morning routine involves reading the Bible. I need to have that time just talking to God and praying, and having some quiet, peaceful time before the day begins. For a while I tried to do this before blogging, but I gave up, because frankly I'm too tired when I first wake up to have productive time being quiet. And quiet time can definitely be productive! We think things through, we pray about important things. But I can't do that when I'm almost falling asleep. So I try to do something else first that wakes me up, so that I can concentrate more and give my full attention to God.

It's important to be quiet, at least for a little bit, at the beginning of the day. Assess your priorities. Bring your worries before God. Examine your heart. When we do these things, the day tends to flow better.

3. Get active. I can't tell you how much happier I've been since I started working out in the morning! It was always something I wanted to do, but getting to the gym was so impossible. With the Wii Fit Plus, I can just workout in my own home. I'm probably not getting as strenuous a workout as I would at the gym, but the point is that I'm doing it. And I've been really consistent for about a month now. It does mean that my school day (since we homeschool) begins about a half hour later than I would otherwise, but because I've exercised I tend to have more energy!

4. Figure out what your "one thing" is. I read a great article on time management recently that said that successful people don't make to-do lists. They simply know what the one biggest priority is, and they work that priority. So their to-do list is only one thing long. I think that's brilliant, and to tell you the truth, it really does work. My one thing right now is my column. I need to get that written and sent in. When that's done, I'll have another one thing. But I find that I can worry about one thing far better than I can worry about twenty. So I try to figure out what the one thing is that is causing me the most stress and worry, and work on getting that out of the way first.

5. Have routines for "routine" things. Sounds basic, but few of us do it. You have to do laundry. You have to do grocery shopping. You have to do ironing (even if you try to reduce the amount of ironing you do as much as possible). You have to change your sheets and mop the floors. I don't think of these as to-dos, really, because they occur all the time. So do you have a routine for laundry? I throw a load in everyday when I get out of the shower. I make my bed everyday when I get dressed. I change my sheets every Friday. I iron every Tuesday. Since I know when I do these things, I don't have to think about them. They automatically get built into my day.

The more we have routines for the routine things, the less busy we feel. You know everything will get done on its day, and you don't have to do everything all at once. The problem with not having routines is that often things get out of control, and then you try to tackle everything at once. That truly is exhausting. So, as much as possible, work routines for these routine things into your week. Then they're not a source of stress. If you want some planning charts to plan your housework, I have some free ones here.

6. Be disciplined. No one likes discipline. It's not fun. But it really does help. You know what needs to be done. You know what you should be doing. Don't work too hard. Your house doesn't need to be spotless. But when you know something needs to get done, just do it. Carve out time in your day when you will get necessary things done. Don't spend your life on a computer or in front of a screen. When we're disciplined, work doesn't have to take that much time. Discipline isn't boring; it actually lets you have more fun because you live in a more organized environment and life is not so chaotic.

So there you are. My pointers for how to have a more peaceful week. I'd love to hear yours! What makes you feel more peaceful? What makes you more organized? Let me know!

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At 8:25 AM , Anonymous Kathryn Lang said…

Almost scary - I started my day almost identical in thinking to yours. We have a chore list and are working as a family one hour each day to complete the chores. I spent my morning over a prayer list and then about twenty minutes just walking and talking with God.

My day started with prayer and thanks and that is definitely the way to start things off right.

Thank you for your encouraging words each day!

 

At 9:52 AM , Blogger Karen said…

I FINALLY think we have a workable routine beginning. For me, I start out my mornings before the children wake up. I don't plan anything for that time except maybe a cup of hot tea or coffee. It's just my time to wake up, talk to the Lord, relax, etc. Some mornings it may involve Bible reading, some mornings it may be reading a devotional, some mornings it may simply be sitting in the recliner with my hot tea/coffee and just relaxing with the Lord - being still before and with Him. I have decided not to put demands on this time as to what I "should" do. That usually does nothing but make me eventually end up feeling like something I HAVE to do. And I don't want my quiet mornings with the Lord to become regimented and something I feel like I have to do.

Once our little one wakes up, the day starts full force. Each afternoon during our little one's nap is designated as my writing time - at least a minimum of 1 1/2 hours anyway. For today, a post on my blog will be the priority. For tomorrow, my column at Take Root and Write will be the priority and will continue to be until it's done before the deadline.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.

Hope you have a great week!
Karen

 

At 10:15 AM , Blogger Courtney Kirkland said…

I loved this post! I wake up so many days wondering how I am going to get everything done. But, as you said it's because I don't have a workable routine set up.

Much as you, if I don't start the morning off on the right foot, then my whole entire day feels like a waste. Thanks for the pointers on getting it started right. I'm going to try to adopt some of these ideas into my mornings this week!

 

At 2:21 PM , Blogger Kimberly said…

My day starts the night before, with a list of things i want to get done, and need to get done. I usually split the difference, with 2 toddlers at home, and 6 children in school, 2 in college any accomplishment is an accomplishment.

We have a pretty calm morning routine, things get wild when the bus lets off the children. I find if i have dinner planned and preferably started, snacks ready to go and everyones chore list in writing, things go much smoother.

The babies and i sort and do laundry, we try to have it all folded before anyone comes home. We make our beds, sweep my room, and clean my bath,lunch, read books, and nap. I do a daily scripture reading and pray on the run...

 

At 7:57 AM , Anonymous Lorene said…

Very motivating. Here lately I have been neglecting my exercise program but after reading your post, I think I will take the 20 minutes to ride my bike...Thanks for the inspiration.

 

At 9:02 AM , Anonymous Allison said…

Great post. Very inspiring. I try to get up at 6. Coffee and God time, journalng and prayer is then. I'd like to throw exercise in but haven't seemed to do that yet. But now maybe I will. Then dress. We homeschool too. Our 4 dc are 12,8,6,3. They get up about 730. I've got a pretty good routine with school but I have not succeeded yet in a good housecleaning schedule. We have a very large, old house (6000 sq ft)(it was my parents). I seem to just tackle the areas that need it the worst, not in any particular order. Gotta work on that. Anyway, thx for the post! God bless!

 

At 5:53 AM , Blogger Fruitful Vine2 said…

I spend the first part of my day from about 4am - 7am in prayer, bible reading(sometimes), blogging and online stuff. Then I tackle laundry and breakfast.

It changes though because if I get up and feel in my spirit that the Lord wants me to do something else in the early morning hours I will do that instead but ordinarily I have that early morning routine.

That way I can work online undistracted by questions and interruptions.

Very helpful article.

 
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