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It's 10 p.m. You want to start snoring. He wants to start snuggling. How do you break this impasse?

If that's you, why not enter this book giveaway? It's been a while since I've given away a book, and I just plain feel like it today. So here's your chance to win Honey, I Don't Have a Headache Tonight: Help for women who want to feel more in the mood.

This one was definitely my bestseller at the conference I spoke at last weekend. I told them afterwards I should have been talking about sex, since that's what everyone seemed concerned about!

But when it comes to sex, we women are conflicted. Sure, it's nice. It can even be fun. But then, chocolate's fun, too, and it requires much less energy. So why don't our husbands enjoy eating chocolate while giving back massages? Life would be so much better, wouldn't it?

Nope. If you don't believe me, you'll have to read the book. But if your conflicting sex drives is a constant problem in your marriage, and your sick of fighting about it, believe me, I've been there. So I did the research, which my husband enjoyed, and I wrote the book.

Do you want to win it? Here's how! Just leave a comment below (and be sure you fill out you leave a blogger profile or an email address), and I'll randomly draw someone on September 29.

Good luck! And why not pass this contest on? Link to it on your blog, too!

If you're not a reader, you can download my talk "Light My Fire", or purchase the CD, here.

And if you have specific questions about sex, I post them (anonymously, of course), and answer them on my main website! You can go here and read what people have already asked! And then just ask me here.

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At 5:56 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said…

Not sure if I can even enter, living in Canada and all. But if I can, would love too!



At 7:48 PM , Blogger meganl said…

Didn't used to be a problem for me, but ever since I've been breastfeeding the desire is nowhere to be here's two sets of fingers crossed to win the book!


At 7:51 PM , Blogger Terry, Ornament of His Grace said…

Hey Sheila, count me in! I'd love to win your book.


At 8:12 PM , Blogger ~Tami said…

Ooh, I'd love to win! I just got your book "To Love, Honour, and Vacuum" and can't wait to get started!


At 8:21 PM , Blogger heather said…

I'd love to win your book!


At 8:49 PM , Blogger Sarah Vrolyk said…

Oh, this sounds like a book I need! :)


At 10:16 PM , Anonymous Jen said…

I definitely need this book, whether or not I win it! I hope I win it! :)


At 10:28 PM , Blogger Farrah said…

Please count me in. :-) I'm always looking for good books to help better my relationship with God and my husband.


At 10:44 PM , Blogger Tracye said…

I definitely need this book!

I've committed myself (and am halfway through!!! Yeah!!!) to reading the entire Bible, cover-to-cover, in 90 days.

I'd love for your book to be the one I read after God's!


At 11:44 PM , Blogger Juli Smith, SU! Demo said…

This sounds like a good read. THANKS for the opportunity to win a copy - how cool is that?

Juli Smith


At 12:33 AM , Blogger Amanda said…

Oh, I think I need this book!


At 1:16 AM , Blogger Crazy Lady Cheryl said…

I think my HUSBAND would love for me to win this book! Thanks for the opportunity!


At 7:47 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said…

I would love, love, love to win this book. It sounds like just the thing I need right now! Thanks for this opportunity! Kristen


At 9:52 AM , Blogger The Creels said…

This book sounds wonderful! This was never a problem for me before. As I get older (I turn 37 tomorrow) is seems the desire is slowly fading away! Help! Haha. Thank you for writing this book and for all your insight.


At 10:08 AM , Blogger Kelly said…

I just ordered your To Love Honor and Vacuum book and would love to read this one as well.
I am in.


At 10:49 AM , Blogger Abi said…

Oh, I'd love to win this book. I've posted about it on my blog.

ABreading4fun [at] gmail [dot]com


At 1:26 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said…

Hi there! I'd love an opportunity to win the book! Count me in. : )

Thank you for the opportunity.

Michelle in CA


At 1:40 PM , OpenID rightfootforward said…

I'm sure my husband would appreciate my entering this particular drawing ;)

Thanks for offering up one of your books for free.

Renee @


At 3:05 PM , Blogger Valerie aka Mamalovelock said…

This definitely sounds like a book I need to read, and I am sure my husband would appreciate it too! :) Thanks for offering up one of your books. I just started reading your blog (about two weeks) and I get your newsletter--love them both!!


At 3:40 PM , Blogger Gina said…

I am always looking to invest in my marriage. God's best and blessings upon you and yours!



At 9:27 PM , Blogger Mary Bernard said…

Sounds great! Would love to win. :)


At 10:07 AM , Blogger dmfitzpatrick16 said…



At 11:17 AM , Blogger Rhonda said…

Sheila - Please enter me! I love books! Thank you for doing a giveaway.

I'll post about this one for you.


At 12:00 PM , Blogger Shaun and Holly said…

Count me in...i'd love to read your book! ;o)



At 12:18 PM , Blogger Ruby (Mouth) said…

I would love a chance at this. Love the title of your blog and your book. LOL!!!

angelleslament @


At 1:00 PM , Blogger Mrs. Querido said…

Yes, you have just described my husband and Three little kids under the age of five definitely sap my energy. I would love to win your book and put it into practice! :)


At 8:05 PM , Blogger Lisa said…

Draw me! Draw me! (How did I end up here anyway? ;-) It all started with the keyword "chocolate" was divine leading, I am sure...)


At 10:50 PM , Blogger Phyllis@Aimless Conversation said…

Pretty sure my hubby would be happy if I won...=)


At 1:02 PM , Blogger devildogwife said…

Would love to win this book! Thanks for the giveaway. :)


At 4:24 PM , Blogger Heather said…

Please enter me in the contest too, thanks!


At 4:55 PM , Blogger Erin said…

I'm newly married, but can already see why this book is so important! I hope I win!


At 8:57 PM , Blogger Karen said…

I can't believe I just ordered this book--and you're having a giveaway! Oh well, if I win another copy, I can give it away...right?


At 12:28 AM , Blogger TRS said…

I want to win!


At 8:13 AM , Blogger Patty said…

Me me! This sounds like a perfect book for me & a lot of my friends!


At 8:53 AM , Anonymous gS49 said…

a copy for my girlfriend--sent anonymously?


At 9:05 AM , Blogger lmkirb said…

Getting up at 4:30...finally getting to sit down around 8:00 at night...passing out while trying to watch tv with my husband...think think book would be kind of handy!
At least my husband would think so!!LOL
Thanks for the giveaway!!


At 11:51 AM , Blogger Ginny said…

Great giveaway, I'd like to read this book!


At 2:30 PM , Blogger Dana said…

hmm, I'd like to read this too.


At 5:12 PM , Blogger AmandaSue said…

sounds like a good book and I like the title, thanks for entering me!


At 7:00 PM , Blogger blueviolet said…

I can see why this was a bestseller at the conference. It's universal, isn't it? Please include me in the drawing!


At 10:39 PM , Blogger The Family =) said…

This is a good giveaway! =) I just had a baby 3-1/2 months ago so i could use a good book like this to read haha

tanyab @


At 12:18 AM , Anonymous Jennifer in Texas said…

I NEED this book! This is a sore subject in our household...has been for a while. Pick me!!!


At 11:07 AM , Blogger The Savage said…

Laughing over the title. Sounds like a great read!! :-)


At 1:42 PM , Blogger queenbee said…

Sounds like the book for me.


At 2:33 PM , Blogger Brittany said…

I have the opposite problem. I'd still love to read the book though!


At 6:53 PM , Blogger Tara said…

Oh man, do we ever need this book. Please pick me! I've been wanting this read forever!


At 10:17 PM , Blogger Terry, Ornament of His Grace said…

I never win anything but there's a first time for everything. Count me in!!


At 2:14 AM , Blogger Stacy said…

Um...we need this book.
Thanks for the contest!


At 10:55 AM , Blogger Amanda said…

I'm sure that I am not going to win this, but what the heck--I know I definitely need it!


At 3:18 PM , Blogger Angie said…

I have been reading some blogs about this topic - I think God is trying to tell me something. :) If I don't win, I'll be back to order! Thanks for the giveaway.


At 3:51 PM , Blogger rebecca said…

Hmmm... Certainly sounds interesting! I would love to read it (and I'm sure my husband would love for me to, too!)

gitrecca at gmail com


At 8:47 PM , Anonymous sarah said…

Sounds like a fun read! I'd love to win this.

fertawert AT yahoo DOT com


At 9:34 PM , Blogger GritsGirl said…

This book sound great. I sounds like something I definatly need to read!!


At 10:13 PM , Blogger Regina said…

What an awesome read this will be! Please enter me!


At 10:37 AM , Blogger ღ Cindy ღ said…

Hi Sheila, I just found your blog yesterday and I'm blessed by how you stand on your conviction as a Christian woman. And yes, if I can enter I love to win your book...I'm from Asia... :P


At 6:40 PM , Blogger Stephanie said…

Looks good, I'd love to win it!


At 7:36 AM , Blogger Sherry said…

I would love to win this.

Thank you for the wonderful giveaway!
A snoring fan - Zzzz!


At 3:42 PM , Blogger Shelley said…

My hubby would be so excited if I won this book! I do want to want it more. I'm just so darn tired after chasing the kids all day!


At 8:07 PM , Blogger Natasha said…

My husband wants me to win this, lol!! Actually, it's a read I could use. Please enter me if I'm eligible (I'm from Canada), thank you :)


At 6:57 PM , Blogger Karyn with a Y said…

I am having a baby soon and know that I will probably be needing this book in a couple of months. Thanks!


At 10:15 PM , Blogger Tracey said…



At 1:12 PM , Blogger tammy said…

Sounds like a great book!


At 4:13 PM , Anonymous Amanda said…

I really enjoy your blog and think I could benefit from this book. Having a chronic pain condition, which involves being extremely fatigued, throws a kink into everything. I would love to know how to refocus my energy on my husband.



At 4:20 PM , Blogger Paula said…

I'd love to win!


At 4:30 PM , Blogger Tara said…

well I am just thrilled I found your site today!!! I'm Canadian too (used to live in Hamilton, now live in Saskatchewan) and I love your site!

I'd love to read your book too :)



At 8:56 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said…

Get a life. Really? Spend some quality time with those you love. Sex is a very important part of a marriage. Intimancy does not need to be "taught" If you don't have that can't be faked in spite of all the humor and books for sale. Sorry'''you probably will not get it!

Married for 38 years and no lessons needed thank you ver much

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